How to keep him interested about you

Do you know why your partner (boyfriend/spouse/ etc) fell in love with you among all the other women they get to be with everyday? Have you ever wondered about it? That man loves you because YOU are YOU and you are way TOO EXTRAORDINARY! 

My 2012 Wish List

1.  Good health for me and my loved ones.

2. Genuine Happiness

3.Peace of Mind

4. Fulfillment in all my endeavor

Affirmation: NO REGRETS!

Honor yourself.

Honor your intuition. 

Honor your feelings. 

As the old wise saying goes; you cannot give what you do not have. True enough, when you choose to live life honoring your feelings, you choose to live life with no regrets. 

Are we on the right track?

Being in a relationship is a risk we subconsciously take. We expose our vulnerability yet trusting the other person not to take advantage of it. We are taking the road we are not even sure where it is leading. We are happy with the uncertainty. The question is, are you willing to go on trudging with that person you are with at the moment?


Problems come up in every relationship. But from time to time, we  reach the point where we question ourselves if our relationship is worth saving or if the person we are with is worth fighting for.

Taking Control

I believe that  we should take control over the relationship to avoid disappointments and scaring our men off (when we start to get too demanding). So instead of us telling them how we want the relationship to roll or how we want to be treated,we should make ways that will lead our men to treat us as fair as we want them to.

Women by nature has a tendency to get serious when we are in a relationship. We tend to care too much and we have high demands on our men. The sad thing about it is that, men in general cannot get that serious especially when it is still in the early part of the relationship. There's a high percentage that our boyfriend is the exact opposite of that suitor we fell in love with.  However, if you do not want to always and forever telling him how he should treat you----make him pursue  you.

Communication Issues

12-22-11

“I and my boyfriend had some misunderstanding about him having no time to chitchat with me---this shouldn't be an issue at all but things really sank deeper none of us expected. I really don’t know why it bothers me but all of the sudden he made me feel unimportant. I am not a toy; all I want is for him to talk to me what’s going through his day. Of course I cannot tell him that because I believe that it is a common courtesy for all boyfriends to INCLUDE their girlfriends in their ADL’s. We used to talk about things that are bothering us but lately, I felt that he doesn’t have time to do that anymore. ALL I EVER WANTED WAS TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP BOUNDED WITH LOVE, TRUST and OPEN COMMUNICATION. Am I asking too much?”